The Bubble Of Relationships

 It is sad when the person that gave you the best memories becomes a memory too but sometimes love isn’t just enough. 1. Cut Off Contacts After a break up whether amicable or not, you need to give yourself time away from them and anything that might trigger more emotions for them.  You can unfollow them from their socials, erase any close contacts you had with them, even if it’s for a while, otherwise you’ll want to see what they are up-to and become jealous or just more bitter.  You might choose to remain friends but you have to give yourself time first before that. 2. Pamper Yourself During a break up, the train of thoughts that criss cross your mind leaves you overwhelmed and drained. You can take this chance and spoil yourself. Go for a vacation. Go get that getaway and just let yourself go!  Some of us might want to take a spa day and relax under the soothing hands calming our muscles and nerves!  Others would want to eat all the ice cream and binge watch. Whatever the case spoil

 What are the warning signs we should look out for if/when trying to get into the dating den.  1. Bad Communication Skills We all love us a person who wants to regularly check up on us. Some people will go under the radar and reappear after a while and act as if nothing is wrong.  They want to pick up where you two left off with no explanation and expect you to understand. They are okay with going the whole day without wanting to know how you are doing. They just don’t care enough. You keep bringing up the communication conversation and trying to make them do better but there’s only so many times you can steer the wheel without getting exhausted. 2. They’re Always Busy People make time for who they want to and when they desire to.  If ‘am busy’ becomes their anthem, maybe just maybe you’re not as important as you want to believe you are in their life. Let someone put you up in that position-where you want to be in their life, without you pushing for it. They might have this list of pri

 Some of us find it hard to commit. You may have fear and find it difficult to build a solid romantic relationship that leads to a long term commitment or just choose not to. 1. When Things Get Real You Bail You might have met someone you share a great interest with and enjoy their company, but the moment things starts heading down the serious road, you’d rather demolish that road and bail or just create potholes to make the ride tougher than it should be. If things are looking too promising you decide it’s time to up and go. 2. You Enjoy The Pursuit Too Much Than The Real Deal It’s all thrills and fun when they are trying to get your attention. You love it when the other person is actually prioritizing you and going out of their way to get you. You will entertain them and let them think they can actually get the candy from your candy jar but as soon as you also want their candy too, you start shutting down. In other words the moment they get too interested and you feel like they might

It’s only human nature to want to be loved or find a partner. Sometimes we feel like the gods of love just aren’t on our side. This in turn might make some women give desperate vibes off, unintentional as it might be, to get a man to like them. 1. Overly- Affectionate So you just met this guy, but you constantly are melting all over him. Too much affection in a new relationship might come off as smothering and clingy. Men know if/when they have earned your affection and if they deserve it. You might make them wish for space too soon in the relationship.  Am not saying no affection but give what you get, make sure it is being reciprocated. Learn their love language and what works for them before you get too mushy on them. 2. Calling/ Texting too much One of the basic foundations of a relationship is good communication but not one that comes off as nagging. You add a man to your life but don’t make him your life.  It’s impressive to a man if you have your own life going on for you and th