TRAITS OF A GOOD WOMAN.

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 1. SHE PUTS IN SOME EFFORT.



When a woman wants to be the best one yet for you, she goes out of her way to show how much you mean to them.

A good woman goes out of her way to maintain a healthy communication in a relationship. This goes past just a ‘hi how are you doing’ dry conversation. This ends up being the monotonous meal no one wants anymore.

They want to know how you’re fairing, what’s eating you up and what they can do to make you feel better. They are always deep with you in this aspect.


2. SUPPORTIVE.



We all love us a great pillar in our lives. That shoulder to lean on and an ear to whatever we have to say.

A great woman will listen keenly to the things you’re fascinated about or issues pulling you down. She encourages you to keep rowing your boat up the hill too. This shows that she’s actually interested in more than just the looks, money or sex. 

She wants to connect with you in all areas and be that person you could always count on, even when the spotlight doesn’t seem to shine on them when the curtains are drawn back.


3. SECURE.



A secure woman means a less dramatic circus type of a relationship. Why? 

She trusts you enough to let you go anywhere and hang out with anyone without having to be extra about it. She doesn’t constantly spy on you or your whereabouts.

She’ll always let you know when you mess up and where you did go wrong. If she’s the one on the wrong, she’ll admit it and say sorry. She won’t let it be a grudge and bring it up every now and then whenever it deems fit.

She knows her self-worth and will let go if she felt she’s not getting the a hundred percent she needs.

4. LOYALTY.



A good woman is not sneaky. You won’t catch her flirting around, be it on texts or in person.

She knows she has her piece of chocolate cake and she’s not looking to change it to a carrot one. 

She holds you in high regard and respect and won’t talk down on  her partner. 


5. AFFECTIONATE.



She connects with you past just sex. It’s not just a ‘wham bam thank you ma’am’ affair. 

You’ll catch her admiring you- by staring at you and smiles off to themselves.  She enjoys your cuddling sessions, she wants to hold hands automatically, the stolen and unexpected kisses. 

All these just come naturally to her, it’s like a reflex response and the best part of it all, she enjoys and likes to do these.


6. INTROSPECTIVE.

She takes time to self examine herself and motivations. She wants to understand her inner self and what she brings to the table and what she actually wants to achieve.

Most of the time, she seeks solutions to problems that were caused by her actions. As I said earlier a good woman will always apologize when she realize that she was on the wrong side.


7. SELF-DRIVEN.



 A woman who takes charge of her own path and get things done is like an ice cream with chocolate sprinkles topping- A win!

She knows what she wants and has the capability of achieving their goals without being pushed around, positive reinforcement here and there and they’re set for their prosperity drive.


8. INTELLIGENT.



Intelligence is the ultimate afrodisiac. There’s more to a woman than what meets the eye. 

An intelligent woman is able to start and maintain a deep and meaningful conversation. Be it about hacks of life or just pure humorous stuff.

She will display high self esteem and is open minded when it comes to matters on different platforms. She will try to be understanding, reasonable and relatable to issues thrown her way or what affect you two or others in general.

Don’t  most of us just find intelligence a turn on!. I do.


CONCLUSION.

Nobody is perfect, but we all want someone who feels right by our side. We all have those traits we look for in someone, it’s as challenging  as finding an oasis in the desert, but when we find them in a person, it just feels right.

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