The Little Big Things In A Relationship.

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Relationships don’t have to be tough and too serious all the time. Sometimes all we need are the little things added together day in day out and we’re in a sailboat of happiness.
They may seem like non-issues to many but they count a lot.

TRUST

I had to start with this one. If there’s no trust in a relationship, the foundation screams weak already.
 No one likes to be doubted by their patner every minute.
Give them that freedom and trust that they’ll do what’s 
right and respectful towards you and your relationship.

COMPLIMENTS 
Everyone likes if not loves to be complimented. Try and do that to your partner whenever it deems fit.
 For example; if he gets a new haircut and is staring at the mirror, a ‘you look great love,’ would go a long way and even stroke his ego.

GRATITUDE

Being greatful is an amazing trait. 
 For any gesture, doesn’t matter how big or small, it’s always honorable to appreciate it. It might be just picking up the laundry from the cleaners to making you your favorite meal or getting you that shoe that you’ve really been eyeing. We should always be thankful.
 There’s a love and satisfaction that comes with being appreciated.

BEING SILLY TOGETHER 

As I said earlier, it’s never too serious with relationships, loosen up!
 Get goofy together, be childish, make fun of each other. Go to the roof top and scream to just hear your echos, race each other to the car or go ‘karaoke-ing’. Such things make you feel alive and fun with your partner.

SURPRISES 

The times that we are in right now, the quarantine times, has limited us to staying and working from home.
 Therefore we’re mostly in our pajamas or our baggy comfortable t-shirts all day. We do not get to be all fancied up at all.
 Surprise them when they least expect it by just dressing up, looking nice for them and having your dinner in style. Get your sexy lingerie and get your sexy on. 

NOTICE THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS
 
We all like our loved ones succeeding. Supporting and paying attention to things they want to accomplish is only but natural. But do we notice when they’re making the baby steps towards their goal? 
  We should be with them throughout their journey even when they think we forgot. This way when they actually get to the set goal, we surprise them and appreciate them for doing it.

AFFECTION 

Some of us are not the type to be all handsy-pansy all the time. We like our space from time to time but, isn’t it a great feeling when you get those random hugs from behind? the stolen kisses, the cuddles e.t.c.
 Makes you feel thought about and loved rather than ignored.

CONCLUSION 
 In conclusion, it’s the little things that build up into something big and solid. They make us who we are in the relationship.
 What’s your favorite little thing to do with your partner?


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